
Bestie Lessons from Taylor Swift & Sabrina Carpenter
When it’s Grammy season, you already know I’m keeping an eye out for the MOTHERS—and by that, I obviously mean Taylor Swift and Sabrina Carpenter.
I’ve been a die-hard fan of both since day one, and let me tell you, my dream of them being besties actually came true. And not only that, but their friendship just keeps getting stronger, more beautiful, and more iconic with each passing day.
I know some of y’all are probably like, “Why are you so invested?” But first of all, how do you know I’m not friends with them, how do you know I’m not in their group chat? 😂 JK, but seriously, I’ve been manifesting this connection HARD, and now that it’s here, I feel like a proud mom myself.? 👀 👀
But fr, they kind of give mother-daughter vibes, and I willed this friendship into existence with the sheer power of manifestation.
Speaking of proud moms… Sabrina winning her FIRST Grammy last night? Yeah, that had me crying. But you know who was crying even harder? Taylor.
She was front row, screaming her lungs out for her “little girl,” giving full-on proud mama vibes. That look on her face? Ugh, it hit me right in the feels. I want a friendship like theirs SO BAD. Zero jealousy, just 100% good vibes, cheering each other on to success.

Taylor Swift will always be Sabrina Carpenter’s biggest cheerleader
Here’s a deep dive into why their relationship is top-tier and what we can all learn from it when it comes to friendships.
1. They’re Each Other’s Biggest Cheerleaders 🎉
One thing about Taylor? She’s always going to scream for her friends. When Sabrina won her first-ever Grammy for Best Pop Vocal Album, Taylor was front and center, losing her mind in the best way possible. No jealousy, no competition—just pure, unfiltered hype. Sabrina even mentioned in interviews how much Taylor’s support has meant to her. And let’s be real, we all need a friend who hypes us up like that.
🔹 Lesson: A real friend celebrates your wins as if they were their own.
2. Taylor Is a Mentor, But They’re Also Equals 👑
Sabrina has always looked up to Taylor, calling her one of her biggest inspirations, but what’s beautiful about their friendship is that it doesn’t feel like a one-sided mentorship. Sure, Taylor gives her advice and has helped shape her as an artist, but they treat each other as equals—two women in the industry just vibing and thriving.
🔹 Lesson: Friendships don’t have to be transactional. The best ones are based on mutual respect and admiration.
3. They Bond Over Shared Experiences 🎤
From performing on the Eras Tour together to sitting side by side at award shows, their friendship has been built on shared experiences. Touring together allowed them to truly bond—traveling, performing, and creating memories. It’s the kind of friendship that grows naturally because of everything they experience together.
🔹 Lesson: Spending quality time and making memories with your friends strengthens your bond like nothing else.
4. They Radiate ‘Women Supporting Women’ Energy 💖
Taylor and Sabrina’s friendship is the definition of women lifting each other up. There’s no competition, no backhanded compliments—just two women fully rooting for one another. In an industry where female friendships can sometimes be pitted against each other, they’re out here proving that supporting your friends makes everyone shine.
🔹 Lesson: A good friendship is built on genuine support, not competition.
5. They Show That Age Gaps Don’t Matter in Friendships 👯♀️
Taylor is 34, and Sabrina is 24, yet their friendship proves that age is just a number when it comes to genuine connection. They vibe on the same level, have fun together, and learn from each other, showing that friendships don’t have to fit into a certain mold.
🔹 Lesson: Friendships aren’t about age; they’re about shared values and genuine connection.
6. Their Friendship Is Both Public and Private 🕶️
We see them together at award shows and concerts, but they also keep a lot of their bond just for them. They hang out privately, text, and have inside jokes that we don’t always see. It’s the perfect balance between letting the world see their friendship and keeping it sacred.
🔹 Lesson: The best friendships don’t always need an audience. Some moments are just for you.

7. They’ve Been There for Each Other in Tough Times ❤️
Taylor and Sabrina’s friendship isn’t just about celebrating the wins; they’ve supported each other through it all. Whether it’s career ups and downs, personal struggles, or just needing a friend to lean on, they’ve proven that true friendships are about being there in every season of life.
🔹 Lesson: A real friend sticks around for the highs and the lows.
8. They Keep It Fun and Lighthearted 🌟
At the end of the day, their friendship is just fun. Whether it’s Sabrina dancing in the background of Taylor’s Eras Tour videos or them giggling at events, they bring joy to each other’s lives. And that’s what friendships should be about—having a good time with people who make your heart happy.
🔹 Lesson: Friendships should feel easy, joyful, and full of laughter.
Final Thoughts
Taylor and Sabrina’s friendship is a blueprint for how we should all show up for our friends. It’s about hype, support, shared experiences, and mutual respect. They show us that friendships don’t need competition or drama to be meaningful—just a whole lot of love and good vibes.
Now, BRB, manifesting a friendship like this. ✨
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