Love in the DMs

Okay, let’s be real—romance is not dead, it just moved to the DMs. Gone are the days of locking eyes across a coffee shop or “accidentally” bumping into your crush at a party. Now? It’s all about the art of sliding in. And honestly, I’m here for it.

The Modern-Day Meet-Cute
There’s something elite about a perfectly executed DM slide. It’s bold, it’s flirty, and best of all—it skips the awkward small talk at a bar. Instead of hoping your crush notices you, you just… shoot your shot. Whether it’s reacting to a story, dropping a casual “haha ur so funny” (even when they’re mid at best), or going full send with a pickup line, the DM is where the magic happens.

Soft Launching a Crush
Sliding in isn’t always a full-court press. Sometimes, it’s a slow build. The occasional like. The subtle comment. The strategic repost of something you know they’ll vibe with. It’s about creating digital tension until one of you finally makes a move.

And let’s not forget the story reply, aka the universal “I’m interested” signal. If someone replies to your random dog pic with “omg so cute,” congratulations, you are now in a talking stage.

DMs Over Dating Apps Any Day
Dating apps are cool and all, but nothing hits like a mutual Instagram follow that turns into an actual conversation. There’s just something more organic about it. No weird bios. No endless swiping. Just pure, unfiltered energy. Plus, let’s be honest, if someone messages you on IG instead of matching on an app, they really wanted to talk to you.

When It Works, It Works
Some of the best love stories start in the DMs. People have literally gotten married from a single “wyd?” text. Others have launched full-blown relationships off a meme exchange. It’s giving modern romance, and I’m obsessed.

So, if you’re debating whether to slide in, this is your sign. Shoot your shot, send the message, and let love happen in the most Gen Z way possible. Who knows? Your future soulmate might be one DM away.

Has sliding in ever worked for you, or are you still waiting for that perfect “haha ur so funny” response?