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This year is all about embracing my book era, and honestly? I’ve been a reading girlie for years. I’ve dabbled in all kinds of genres, but let’s be real—romance has my heart. It doesn’t matter if it’s sweet, angsty, or full of jaw-dropping plot twists. As long as love is at the center, I’m hooked.
And if we’re talking dark romance with a little spice… yeah, I’m into that too. No shame here, bestie—I know you get it. Let’s be bookish besties and not pretend we don’t live for those chef’s kiss tension-filled, slow-burn-to-spicy arcs.
Since I’m fully dedicating myself to my reading era, I thought it’d be fun to reflect on the books I’ve devoured over the years (or just in the past few days—because let’s be real, I inhale books). Not only have they been entertaining, but they’ve also dropped some unexpected relationship wisdom along the way. So, let’s talk about the books that had me kicking my feet and thinking deeply about love.
1. Love Yourself First – “It Ends With Us” by Colleen Hoover
Before you can truly love someone else, you need to value yourself. Lily Bloom’s journey teaches us that self-respect and setting boundaries are key in any relationship. Love shouldn’t come at the cost of your peace.
Lucy and Josh’s enemies-to-lovers story proves that half the drama in relationships could be avoided if people just talked to each other. Misunderstandings are inevitable, but being open and honest changes the game.
If someone truly loves you, they’ll show it. Noah’s iconic letters remind us that real love isn’t just about words—it’s about effort. You deserve a partner who goes the extra mile.
People grow, circumstances change, and sometimes, the timing just wasn’t right the first time. January and Gus prove that giving love a second shot can lead to something even stronger.
Yes, chemistry is important, but real love also means feeling safe and being able to be your most authentic self with someone. If a relationship constantly feels like a battle, it might not be the right one.
A fiery, obsessive romance can be intoxicating, but it’s not enough. Love should also be kind, supportive, and healthy. If someone’s love feels more like possession than partnership, it’s time to re-evaluate.
Sometimes, love isn’t about finding the right person but finding them at the right time. Dexter and Emma’s journey shows us that even the most powerful connections can struggle if the timing isn’t aligned.
The best relationships start with friendship. Poppy and Alex’s slow-burn romance reminds us that laughter, shared experiences, and deep emotional connection lay the foundation for lasting love.
Great love stories have challenges, but if a relationship constantly feels like an uphill battle, it’s worth asking if it’s truly meant to be. Love should add to your life, not drain you.
Forget the “rules” of romance. Whether your love story is fast and passionate, slow and steady, or completely unconventional, the most important thing is that it’s yours.
11. The Right Person Won’t Try to Change You – “Love and Other Words” by Christina Lauren
Macy and Elliot show us that the best kind of love lets you be exactly who you are. If someone truly loves you, they’ll embrace your quirks, not try to fix them.
Louisa and Will’s story reminds us that love isn’t just about the good times—it’s about opening up, even when it’s scary. True love means letting someone see the real you, flaws and all.
Sometimes, life pulls people apart, but real love finds a way to stay alive. This book proves that no matter the distance, deep connections leave lasting marks.
Eva and Shane’s second-chance romance shows that heartbreak isn’t just pain—it’s also clarity. Every failed love teaches you more about what you truly need in a partner.
Lina and Aaron’s story proves that love doesn’t always happen in a perfect, fairy-tale way. Sometimes, it’s messy, complicated, and full of misunderstandings—but that doesn’t mean it’s not real.
Not every love story is an instant spark. Some of the strongest relationships build over time, growing deeper as trust and understanding develop.
If someone loves you, you won’t have to chase them. Kenna’s journey shows us that while love takes effort, it should never make you feel unworthy or unwanted.
Stella and Michael’s relationship teaches us that love is powerful, but it’s not a fix-all. A partner can support you, but you’re responsible for your own healing and growth.
There’s a difference between someone loving the idea of you and truly loving you. If someone keeps you waiting, hesitating, or only loving you halfway, they’re not the one.
The ultimate love story is one where you feel safe, understood, and truly at home. Henry and Alex prove that love should feel like the coziest, warmest place in the world.
At the end of the day, romance books don’t just make us swoon—they teach us what love should (and shouldn’t) feel like. Whether it’s about letting go, holding on, or recognizing when something isn’t meant for you, these stories are full of wisdom we can carry into our own love lives.
So tell me, bestie—what’s the best relationship advice you’ve learned from a book? Spill your favs, because my TBR list is always growing! 📚💕
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